One of the first qualities I observe in a couple is how much enthusiasm they have for their wedding. The planning process can be difficult and stressful, and often that can sap the couple of their excitement. But from the moment I met Calvin and Shelley, I was struck by how excited they were to be getting married. Nothing was taken for granted, and they seemed truly enthusiastic for every part of the day. That gratitude and excitement was the hallmark of their wedding for me, and resonated throughout the whole celebration.